How Can I Know God?

In order to form a personal relationship with God, you must know three things:

1. Who we are:

  • God’s creation. God created us and built us for a relationship with Him. We belong to Him, and we owe Him gratitude for every breath, every moment, everything. Because humans were built to live for Him (to worship), we will always try to worship something if not God we will choose some other object of ultimate devotion of give our lives meaning.
  • Sinners. We have all chosen (and re-affirm that choice daily) to reject God and make our own joy and happiness our highest priority. We do not want to worship God and surrender our self-mastery, yet we were built to worship so we cling to idols, centering our lives on things that promise to give us meaning: success, relationships, influence, love, comfort, and so on.
  • In spiritual bondage. To live for anything else but God leads to breakdown and decay. When a fish leaves water, which he was built for, he is not free, but dead. Worshiping other things besides God leads to a loss of meaning. If we achieve these things, they cannot deliver satisfaction, because they were never meant to be gods. They were never meant to replace God. Worshiping other things besides God also leads to self-image problems. We end up defining ourselves in terms of our achievement in these things. We must have them or all is lost; so they drive us to work too hard, or they fill us with terror if they are jeopardized.

2. Who God is:

  • Love and Justice. His active concern is for our joy and well-being. Most people love those who love them, yet God seeks the good even of people who are His enemies. But because God is good and loving, He cannot tolerate evil. The opposite of love is not anger but indifference. The more you love your son, the more you hate in him the liar, the drunkard, the traitor. To imagine God’s situation, imagine a judge who also is a father, who sits at the trial of his guilty son. A judge knows that he cannot let his son go, for without justice no society can survive. How much less can a loving God merely ignore or suspend justice for us who are loved, yet guilty of rebellion against His loving authority?
  • Jesus Christ. Jesus is God Himself come to Earth. He first lived a perfect life, loving God with all His heart, soul and mind, fulfilling all human obligation to God. He lived the life you owed a perfect record. Then, instead of receiving his deserved reward (eternal life), Jesus gave his life as a sacrifice for our sins, taking the punishment and death each of us owed. When we believe in Him:
    • Our sins are paid for by his death,
    • and His perfect record is transferred to our account. So God accepts and regards us as if we have done all Christ has done.

3. What you must do:

    • Repent. There first must be an admission that you have been living as your own master, worshipping the wrong things, violating Gods loving laws. Repentance means you ask forgiveness and turn from that stance with a willingness to live for and center on Him.
    • Believe. Faith is transferring trust from your own efforts to the efforts of Christ. You were relying on other things to make you acceptable, but now you consciously rely on what Jesus did for your acceptance with God. All you need is nothing. If you think God owes me something for all my efforts, you are still on the outside.
    • Pray after this fashion: I see I am more flawed and sinful than I ever dared to believe, but that I am more loved and accepted than I ever dared hope. I turn from my old life of living for myself. I have nothing to merit you’re approval, but I now rest in what Jesus did and I ask to be accepted into God’s family for His sake.” When you make this transaction, two things happen at once:

– Your accounts are cleared; your sins are wiped out permanently, you are adopted legally into God’s family, and
– The Holy Spirit enters your heart and begins to change you into the character of Jesus.

  • Follow through. Tell a Christian friend about your commitment. Get yourself in training in basic Christian disciplines of prayer, worship, Bible study, and fellowship with other Christians. You can contact our church office, and we will connect you with someone who is willing to help you grow as a Christian.

Why Should I Seek to Know God?
On one hand, you may feel that you “need” him. Even though you may recognize that you have needs that only God can meet, you must not try to use him to achieve your own ends. It is not possible to bargain with God. (“I’ll do this if you do that.”) That is not Christianity at all, but a form of magic or paganism in which you attempt to “appease” the cranky deity in exchange for a favor. Are you getting into Christianity to serve God, or to get God to serve you? Those are two opposite motives and they result in two different religions. You must come to God because:

You owe it to Him to give Him your life (because He is your creator), and
You are deeply grateful to Him for sacrificing His son (because He is your redeemer).
On the other hand, you may feel no need or interest to know God at all. This does not mean that you should stay uncommitted. If you were created by God then you owe Him your life, whether you like it or not. You are obligated to seek Him and ask Him to soften your heart, open your eyes, and enlighten you. If you say “I have no faith” that is no excuse either. You need only doubt your doubts. No one can ever doubt everything at once you must believe in something to doubt something else. For example, do you believe you are competent to run your own life? Where is the evidence of that? Why doubt everything but your doubts about God and your faith in yourself? Is that fair? You owe it to God to seek Him. Do so.

What If I Am Not Ready to Proceed?
Make a list of the issues that you perceive to be a barrier to your crossing the line into faith. Here is a possible set of headings:

Content Issues. Do you understand the basics of the Christian message–sin, Jesus as God, sacrifice, faith?
Coherence Issues. Are there intellectual problems that you have with Christianity? Objections to the Christian faith that you cannot resolve in your own mind?

Cost Issues. Do you perceive that a move into full Christian faith will cost you dearly? What fears do you have about commitment?

Now talk to a Christian friend until these issues are resolved. Or call our church office and we will be happy to connect you with someone you could talk to about these matters.
Consider reading:

Hope Has its Reasons, by Rebecca Pippert
Mere Christianity, by C. S. Lewis
Basic Christianity, by John Stott